Grey's Tackles Don't Ask Don't Tell

The May 8th episode of Grey's Anatomy featured a heartwrenching story of a gay U.S. Army soldier preparing for experimental and life-threatening brain surgery. What is notable is that the story also weaved in the military's Don't Ask Don't Tell policy as well as reaction from the soldier's disapproving father.

When the patient kissed his boyfriend, also a member of the military, it was one of network television's still-rare male-male kisses. But more importantly, it was a natural, organic response given the story, so kudos to Grey's and ABC for realistically presenting a scene between two men who knew this may be the last time they would be able to touch and see each other alive. Dr. Grey's reaction to them kissing was not a stock television look of surprise or shock, but one of sympathy she would give to any couple going through this emotional moment. And regular viewers know she also looked at them with regret, envious of the love that she currently does not have in her own life.

While the ending regrettably did not leave the door open for the story to continue, it was a worthy effort.